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I’m Nikquan Lewis — a Licensed Relationship and Intimacy Therapist, Speaker, Consultant and Author who helps people stop letting trauma write their story.

I wrote When Trauma Is Your Author for the one who keeps choosing partners that mirror their wounds instead of their worth.

For the one pouring into friendships with no return.

For the one shrinking at work because somewhere along the way, they learned their voice didn’t matter.

If you’re tired of performing peace while carrying pain…

Of living on autopilot, stuck in patterns you didn’t ask for…

This is your invitation to take the pen back.

Through my private practice, Intimate Connections PLLC, and features in major platforms including Essence, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, and more, I help people disrupt cycles, reclaim their power, and create relationships that feel like safety, not survival.

This is about transforming your life and your legacy.

If you’re ready to stop surviving and start choosing yourself, you’re in the right place.

When Trauma Is Your Author: The Price Your Relationships Pay and How to Reclaim Your Story

When Trauma is Your Author: The Price Your Relationships Pay and How to Reclaim Your StoryYou didn’t choose trauma, but if you don’t face it, it will keep choosing you.Unresolved trauma isn’t just emotional—it infiltrates your relationships, your intimacy, your career, and your sense of self. It shapes how you love, communicate, and connect. It convinces you that you must earn love, that boundaries are rejection, and that success requires overworking and proving your worth. It traps you in cycles of toxic relationships, self-sabotage, burnout, emotional disconnection, and unspoken wounds from childhood.But here’s the truth: your story doesn’t have to end the way it began.In this ...
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